If you think there is a chance that your spouse might be cheating on you, I want to show you a quick and easy way to find out for sure. Dealing with this type of suspicion can grate on your nerves – you deserve to know the truth about whether or not your partner is being faithful.
There are more and more people that are hiring private investigators to “spy” on their spouse. However, you don’t need to go to such an extreme! Whenever we get an email from someone who is considering using a private investigator to see if anything “fishy” is going on, we always recommend using the following method first.
You will be happy to know that this “detective’s trick” is fast, very easy and hardly costs a dime. You will need to follow three steps for it to work – let’s look at each one.
Step #1 – Could Your Spouse Be Cheating?
In the first step you need to be a touch on the sneaky side. You will need to get a hold of your spouse’s cell phone for about 15 minutes so you can look at it without worrying about anyone walking in and “catching” you.
Make sure you pick a good time! Your spouse might have just jumped in the shower or is out with friends without their phone. Just make sure you have about 15 minutes to yourself.
Once you get a hold of their cell phone grab a pen and paper and get comfortable. You are going to look over their entire call history. Most cell phones keep track of the last 100 calls – look at both the incoming and outgoing call history lists and write down every phone number that you see.
If there are some phone numbers you recognize you don’t have to write them down. Just make sure you are jotting down every other phone number you see.
When you are done, put the phone back and move on to the next step.
Step #2 – Is Your Spouse Cheating On You?
Now it’s time to find out exactly who your spouse has been chatting with. There’s a way that you can find out someone’s full name, address and background information by having nothing but their phone number.
There are businesses that put together massive databases of every phone number out there (including unlisted and cell phone numbers). They purchase access to these phone records, build their databases and then let anyone run a search on any phone number.
This type of search is call a “reverse phone lookup” and is done online right from your computer. You just enter the phone number and the person’s full details (name, address etc) is shown on your computer screen.
You can try a free sample search by using the link that we have included at the bottom of this article. This will show you exactly how it works.
This type of service does carry a small fee but it isn’t expensive. One way to save money is to look for a company that charges a one-time only fee for unlimited searches in their database. This way you don’t have to pay for each and every search you run.
Go through your list and run a search for each phone number. As you do this, write down the information you find out about each one next to the number on your list.
At this point it’s time to go to the last step.
Step #3 – How To Find Out If Your Spouse Is Cheating
Now you have a list of all the people that your partner has been chatting with (and how often). This information makes it easy to spot any suspicious patterns about whether or not your spouse is cheating.
Pay attention to the names that you see on your list. There are many times that people will suspect that their spouse is seeing someone else in particular – if this fits your situation, does that person’s name show up?
It’s easy to figure out if your spouse is cheating on you once you know who they have been talking to. This easy “detective’s work” will get you the answers you need about your relationship and whether your spouse is being truly faithful to you.